Everyone is using relaxers, weaves, etc. I keep hearing that it's harder to maintain natural hair, but it's not I can say first hand it's not. I have gotten a perm since I was born and my hair is long too. I used to think it was so sexy when it used to be in style for women to wear huge fros with the headbands and the hoop earrings. I think it's sad that sisters don't appreciate black beauty as much as they used to. I don't mind if it's short either. You can look plenty feminine with short hair. That's why there's so many bald women in the black community because relaxers kill hair roots.